Trees

Today I learned that my husbands niece was working on her Family Tree. It got me to thinking how closed minded my sister is. She wouldn’t help me with info on my birth family. She said she couldn’t. Which means to me that they are probably hiding something or they really don’t want me in the family. Oh well too late...our mother gave birth to me when she could’ve aborted me. I believe there has to be some kind of consequence for her actions. She can’t keep pulling the rape card without anything being said from the birth father. I find it hard to believe that my aunt and uncle, my birth father’s brother and sister wouldn’t say something to me. And even if it was rape it was 51 years ago. She got married and had my brother 1 year and 9 months after I was born. Statistically speaking rape victims either become very promiscuous or are never comfortable enough to have a loving relationship. I know for me I was very promiscuous after my brother molested me. It took me 6 years to finally see what was right in front of me. Something doesn’t add up. And even if it does why continue blaming me and hold me accountable for my birth fathers actions. That’s where the closed minded part comes into factor. At least I’m getting help for what has happened to me. And from what I can see I’m probably going to need help for awhile.