Toxicity

some people may think I’m toxic...it feels like they may have more of a problem with me speaking out loud for the adoptees to have their voices heard. I realize we all have different experiences and reality’s but at the end of the day we are people that want to be able to be ourselves. It’s hard to know what and who you are when your whole life you had to pretend to be a part of a family that were strangers.

So yes we may come across as toxic, but of course it’s because we are on a journey to learn who we are. And sometimes it’s not pretty...it does take time but we really are still the individual who will ignore our needs to please someone that’s not blood related.