Rejection

I don't think a lot of people understand how hard it is to treat people without rejection. The struggle is real for adoptees and they can learn how to stop pushing people away. It's just so much harder when some of us will even push their children and significant other away.

Acceptance is one of the keys to this cure. Acceptance from the very people that rejected you can close that hole in the heart that was created at birth. If that doesn't happen with ease it just adds more to an already full plate. We just have to find other coping methods. Alcohol, drugs and suicide are not the the best decision for our already fragile state of mind.