More to the point...

In the same sentence of being called a narcissist, I was also accused of gaslighting. I looked up the term and evaluated it intently. I scanned my memories of my interactions with these people and came to the conclusion that they don’t understand the meaning, or they do and they’re just trying to gaslight me.

One does have to acknowledge the angry or they will ruin your life with their words. There is no reason to call me a narcissist or accuse me of gaslighting anyone. I lived with that individual and I left that individual. In fact, my Adoptive Aunt is still trying to do this to me. I’m not biting anymore. I know it’s a trap and I refuse to go down that road. I’m adopted...not uneducated!

All I can do is educate others about people that are only trying to hurt you and make you doubt yourself. It’s hard enough on adoptees to feel strong and capable of allowing love in their life, why would someone want to take us down unless they hate themselves that much more and want others to suffer too.