Listen

Instead of belittling us Adoptees for speaking out and getting mad at us and wanting us to pay for how we react to situations that were stemmed from something that occurred because of a choice that was made for us before we had a voice, maybe everyone should listen when we speak.

Instead of reading my blog because you're scared that i might say something that makes you look bad, maybe you should try to actually read what I wrote and then go back and reread it in my voice.

Instead of expecting to see me post something that incriminates you as an uncaring cold shrew maybe you should look inside your soul and wonder if you could've reacted differently to a very stressful moment of my life.

I know for me there really is no excuse for what I have done in my past but I also know that what I have done in my past stems to my Adoption, my adoptive parents lack of any education on parenting an adoptee, and the molestation that I had to endure at the hands of my adoptive parents' biological son...