How is this real?

Or better yet...how is it ok to think that pointing a finger at someone for doing the exact thing that you vent about is the right way to get your point across. Why call someone out for feeling uncomfortable with you and then turn around and say that ‘you’ are always being ‘tone policed’? Just by putting my name out there and trying your best to silence me or calling me out as a liar just goes to show that you are trying to minimize my feelings. I know what I felt and I know what I was told by others about how they felt about having you in our private group. I did what was best for the group and when you put my name out there to say that I was in the wrong, I know for a fact I did the right thing by removing you. Now you have publicly posted that it was wrong of me to try to protect our privacy. You have shoved all of the adoptees in the group back to the dark place where they are scared to say anything because people like you have proven that their feelings don’t matter, and that they can’t share anything privately. You have proven to us that we are only allowed to bury our feelings just as we did/do with our adopters and society.

Putting my name out there doesn’t prove anything, especially when I have never used your name. The only people that know what’s going on are your followers. It would surprise me to think that there are people out there that will only read your side of the situation and not the whole situation. Of course you will only post the screenshots that make you look like you’re being picked on. How does this help adoptees? This is more like something that an angry unforgiving individual would do. Someone who refuses to grow. Someone who just wants to play the blame game.

I want to learn and I want to be able to publicly talk. I don’t want to be pushed back into the corner like you are trying to do to me. Lord knows you have done this to multiple people, adoptees, adopters, adoptors and birth parents.

If you don’t have anything nice to say with my name then don’t say anything at all. As you worded it “TAKE MY FUCKING NAME OUT OF YOUR FUCKING MOUTH”