How is it fair?

I have nothing good to say about adoptees that attack adoptees for their opinion. I feel that everyone has a right to say their opinion but to have someone that disagrees with you should never talk to you as though you are wrong for the way you feel. To have someone go after you is the worst thing and then call in their troops to back them up.

The pain that an adoptee goes through especially if they were rejected by their birth family twice in their life and then have an adoptee reject their feelings is insurmountable. I can get over the adoptee anger because I feel their pain, I have no coping skills for having my birth family rejecting me. All that I can hope is that this type of anger is talked about and never repeated.

The harm that a group of people can do to an adoptee is pure pain that causes an overwhelming amount of depression. Only someone that has had this done to them can understand.