Happy Adoptees?

I've seen alot of Adoptees commenting that they are happy that they were adopted and when another Adoptee pipes up and says anything negative about adoption they get slammed. Viciously. It makes one wonder why they are so against someone for speaking their truth...are they secretly scared to say anything for fear of being judged. Which is one of the side effects of Adoption...fear of judgement...all we really want is to fit into this strangers world...even if we feel like we don't. We want to show our gratitude and if we say anything they may not love us unconditionally. Love=Conditions...Love=Gratitude...Love=Judgement...I know I have finally seen the light...it took me 52 years to come out of the fog but I'm glad I have. If I had kept my blinders on I would've ended up dieing...either by my health deteriorating or suicide...yes adoption can put you into a really bad place...even if you had great Adoptive parents'.