Common folk

I have seen a commonality with adoptees. They seem to be very apologetic to searching for their birth family...Their roots...Their heritage. They also tend to wait quite late in life to start their search...It's seems like it is most often because they don't want to piss off their adoptive parents. They usually wait until they have passed. But unfortunately that usually means that their birth parents have passed as well. It's like a continuous circle of regret...abondonment and rejection.