MARY LORRAINE DANROTH
Whenever I hear someone say they were happy they were adopted I get to wondering if they would say the same thing if they were to find out that they were actually a 60's scoop baby... What if they learned the truth that their first parents actually did get married and make a better life... What if they could've had a better life than what the Adoptee actually had in their second family...what if they never found out the truth...could they really go to their grave not giving their children/grandchildren their heritage...
What if the Adoptee did learn the truth of their first family and discovered that they were lucky that they didn't have to suffer through the same things that their siblings had to go through... What if the siblings were mad at the first mother for not having placed them up for adoption as well...
What if the siblings wanted nothing to do with the first born but they searched out all the information possible on the first born... What if the first born 'let it go'? What if the first born was finally able to get better just by blogging it all and helping out anyone that was in the triad...
Something that I experience that I will never be able to let go... The fact that I will never be able to attach to anyone for fear that I will be forever rejected...my first mother rejected me twice... How can anything be worse than that?
My Best Friends
Scott Alan Warner
Angela Barra’s Medium
Adoptee Rights Australia
NPE and Me
The Invisible Threads